Love what you have or have what you love?

Maybe they are the same thing? Or maybe you should aim for a bit of both?
So,
Should you learn to love what you've got? Is acceptance the only route to contentment, fulfilment and happiness? Do you have to learn to love what you have now before you can ever love what you may have in the future?
Or,
Is acceptance defeatist? Does loving what you've got hold you back from pursuing your dreams? Can you only really be happy if you push yourself to your limits, never settling for less than the best you can achieve? Should you keep searching if something doesn't feel quite right?

Can you find happiness? Or is it something you have to learn?
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*Note:
People giving their opinions twice will not receive 2 cookies, 1 cookie per opinion only.
No gushing, it's a philosophical question, man up!
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